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Mexican Cherry

Hello & welcome to the lifestyle blog of the Mexican Cherry!

The title of this post might sound daring and way bold, while for me, as an International Relations graduate, is actually a part of reality and just an advice towards the rest of the IR community. 


Disclaimer: This is definitely not directed towards the UN itself or any of it's activities. I respect it for what it is. Consider this post as an advice or suggestion for our fellow colleagues and others to perceive this field in a broader sight. 



When I entered college, there was this group of people that displayed their reasons to study International Relations and their expectations for the future, and everyone kinda said something about traveling around the world. As fancy and tempting this sounds, the IR field has no limits. Yes! No limits! 

Then, as our student journey kept going forward, most teachers would ask if we saw what the UN (insert assembly) was about, or if we would like to do a model an debate international topics. It always seemed to me that others think about consulates, diplomatic missions and finally the UN. 

Yes, it would be a great opportunity to be able to participate within the UN activities, although to my perspective, teachers and students are missing the big picture... As much as we love international organisms and the massive meaning of them, my colleagues often forget that our field is composed by different scenarios, and we have the local, national, international all interacting with each other. Whatever is done in an international way, affects us locally. Don't believe me? Think about how most of us have an imported item in the household, or about the music and movies, series, books, art...etc, that we have or has influenced our daily life. 

Everything is involved in an international performance, which is why dear colleagues, we can aspire to work in plenty spheres, not only the diplomatic way or the international organism is available. Dear colleagues, the world is ours! We can dream of anything! From yes, makeup, art, politics and even design, we can do it! It obviously depends on each individual but please, do not let yourselves fool that there is only one accepted way for us. This world offers more than you'd think. 






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Hey, it is Mexican Cherry ~ Alive and already inspired to keep slaying...

Tiny update on how things are rolling these days and also an explanation for the lack of content a.k.a The Drought. 


Gonna keep this simple, really. My hardest, longest, complicated and terrifying exam already occurred and still waiting for results, gonna get em on December 6. Wish me luck! Hopefully I passed with a nice score (really praying for that).

Love has been floating in my air! Sincerely, between the exam, the study sessions that bae cheered and lightened for me and plenty coffees and dates, my schedule became a blob that focused solely on that. LOVED IT!

Creatively, must say inspiration knocked on my door again, feeling like creating what I truly want and how I want it. Today was the last day to work for school or projects and from now on the theme has been scheduled.

- Gotta workout a looooooooooooooooooooot since my lack of discipline kinda ruined the plan of being hot as on prom, now I gotta look decent and healthy enough.
- Read all I wanted but couldn't
-Paint! Love my watercolours and miss them so much
- Regain my guitar skills
- Boost this lovely blog and give it a deserved makeover.


A plus of it is that I will be introducing way more personal content, but this time a visual one. 

Still loving two bloggers/vloggers/queenswhoslay, and both are Rachel's except for their lastname...will discuss that later I promise.


So, love...burnout, creativity and fitness. That clearly visualizes december's take of events and the upcomming surprises, btw bae if you're reading this I love you so much, you are my rock S2 



- Until another encounter-


Yours truly,

Mexican Cherry 
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As the huge as exam approaches, my mental condition sharpens and there are things to be done in order to get the satisfaction of nailing that test and having a successful outcome. Sadly, some of us don't always wake up in the working mood or even in the wanting to do anything mood... 

When I look back at my old habits, there was always this winning attitude towards work and studies, but as my emotional breakdown hit it's peak, all my empowering self started to fade. Yes, it helped me take a more objective perception of achievement and not having this deception everytime there was a "failure" situation, but it also got me quite relaxed in a bad way: Over procrastination, unpunctual everytime, no discipline whatsoever.

Then I stumbled on a picture saved in the old files of the imagery folder and it hit me, wow! I was really really going through a great path in organization and more important, discipline.

This time there is no excuse







We cannot wait any more time to be on the "right mood", "right time", because everything is happening except for ourselves, the world won't wait for anyone and it is now the only time to focus on. 

So, following the Productivity Series and the now initiated Worktober, here are 5 ways that the common and messy girl can easily follow for a boost of inspiration and productivity.



  1.  WATCH INSPIRATIONAL MATERIAL 
  2. USE TIME BLOCKS 
  3. WORK IN YOUR OWN TIME 
  4. GET SMALL AND LESS STRESSFUL TASKS DONE FIRST 
  5. USE MUSIC WISELY (OR SOUNDS)

1 WATCH INSPIRATIONAL MATERIAL 

To me, sometimes inspiration or the mood to work has to be there for me to actually enjoy getting up and do my chores so, these are the go to movies, series and lately vloggers that help me get in the mood. 

Also, playing those on the background makes me focus and numbs the distracting thoughts and for these I play videos or series that I've watched before so there is no worry over missing parts or having to watch it for real. Just work or do any other activity along them. 









From FRIENDS, Apartment 23 and my all time favorites to boost my energy Legally Blonde and Devil Wears Prada! 


Those are pretty much my go to everytime there is a rush to get things done. By the way for both movies it's the 30 minute mark the one that has the makeover that gives the right motivation~


2.- USE TIME BLOCKS 

We have been bombed with techniques of how to use your time wisely and to be honest the only one that worked was the time block / pomodoro technique, but not really.  So I adapted this timer to take 25 minute blocks of work and then 25 minutes of another activity that does not mean actual work. 

Example: 

25 minutes of analysis of surveys for my actual job 
25 minutes of doing the dishes 
25 minutes of reading and studying 
25 minutes of abs workout 

-.... this has helped me do a lot of things and in no time, besides working like this makes it easier to focus without ditractions and afterwards distract and refill your brain's energy. 

I use any timer but lately for my computer work this website has made the difference, you set the time and an alarm pops when time's up. 

Tomato Timer



3.- WORK IN YOUR OWN TIME 


If there's something to hate is pressure, and sometimes there is pressure from everyone having the perfect 5am morning routine or the solved adult life having a huge salary and office job at the age of 12, you get the idea right? It definitely sucks to feel everyone's getting "better" in life, when in reality who cares? 

The only person, lifestyle and goals you should be following (implementing for real) and wasting your time on is your own, and no matter how much people talk you through their times and achievements, forget about it the moment your meeting ends. Focus on yourself, and do everything with your own pace, at your own time and this obviously applies to WORK. 

By the way it is not an excuse for procrastination, in the end getting things done is an improvement for everyday but honey, stop suffering for not being able to follow some other person productivity pace, follow your heart and the way you do your stuff cause in the end you're the only one that knows how you work for real, nobody has the power to judge that. 


4.- GET SMALL AND LESS STRESSFUL TASKS DONE FIRST 

This one is an important one, because as you go through the making of a lovely to do list you will also encounter a lot of tiny chores that make that list a million pages long, but take a look at it for real and try to find a hierarchy for all. My tip is to separate them in cathegories: 

Today's list was pretty much this way: 




5.- USE MUSIC WISELY (OR SOUNDS) 

Sometimes we need a background noise without visuals, and music is the perfect choice, except when you obviously love the songs and stop at every single one to sing or dance that exciting part (which happens to me a lot while getting ready actually) and that breaks down PRODUCTIVITY. 

So the solution to this might seem awkward but here I'm giving you a tip that works for me: 

  • Play french music - I do speak some french but not enough to distract me and I barely know french songs, just have a few favorites from a spotify playlist, that is called French Women actually. Anyway the tip is play songs you don't know or in a language you barely understand (tricky, but chose the genre that you know less also because I don't know korean and still get distracted from k-pop). 
Another way is to play sounds in the background and for that this is my favorite app/website: COFFITIVITY!!!  You can chose sounds and they make you feel as if you were working on other places, without having to leave your desk or house at all. It is weird but believe me, they transport your mind to another place, ready to work! 




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Here there are, my 5 favorite ways to boost that inspiration and get me ready to WORK! 

This Worktober Mexican Cherry is on track! Willing to change and make it to the top, of course sharing the experience as it goes 


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Today is the day I will be exposing a story that I believe a lot of people can relate to. 




Cherry entered college

In the begining everything was fine, met friends and within there was a special girl that was very alike in terms of working, fact that made projects super easy at the time and with the best grade always. Of course we partnered  for everything, it was the best choice, wasting less time working and getting ultimate results, yup! It was good. 

What I'm about to say might sound like bragging but as someone has told me:

You don't have to apologize for success, not when you have fought for it and worked you ass off to get what you have~ 

- I've always been an excellence student, yes, always, my parents raised me with that purpose in mind actually so, rivals tend to come on the way in order to take your first place and smile above you, now to add a bit more, I am very competitive in all matters, and want to win all the time (who doesn't?) and this girl presented to me as the same. She is very very competitive and will literally do anything to get what she wants. Either way our grades were always really the same, so we were practically the perfect TEAM. 

Time passed and...turns out Cherry fell in love, and love has a cost sometimes... it all went perfect but on the journey, there were some challenges for da relationship to grow and remain as beautiful as it is at the moment (Ha! spoiler!). Let me tell you, Cherry is very emotional, her feelings are intense most of the time and there is no way to stop her from crying when she really is hurt. I have mentioned in TRUST ISSUES: PART I  a bit of the story or some effects of it, at least the ugly side.  


So, considering a lingering sadness

...and growing ache in roots of jealousy (obviously potentialized by real facts and events) this specific friend became a shoulder to cry on, since she was pretty much the one I had to spend three quarters of my day with -we had all our classes together- and she really listened.

 At this moment of tranquility now I realize that many of her consolation speeches were mostly adding to the pain, they were not improving in any way, but rather depressing and making me doubt even more of what was going on. 

This became eviden after my storm was over and happiness took over, since Cherry told her about all of the cute and fun stuff that happened regarding the painful situation and her reaction was pretty much cold stone and she instantly began to remind me all the bad aspects that his particular person has, how I didn't got what I wanted specifically, how this could lead to failure, how the other girl would never go away and well... reminding me all of the bad and no, no, it was not in a sense of hey girl be careful, I don't want him to hurt you again, no, it was said with such a tone that made me feel weird, even uncomfortable. 

Why wasn't she happy that I finally was? 

Throughout our college journey competition was evident as I said, but pretty normal actually, in my head love and growing up internally was a priority, because I consider these experiences one of a kind, the ones that help you learn more about yourself and guide your path towards a true destination, along maturity and tranquility in the overall life scenario. After my second semester breakdown due obtaining a B that would bring my GPA down by a tiny important bit - that in the end didn't matter at all- I realized there was more to worry about and the grading process is not fair at all for anyone! You can get an A with plenty methods that do not require learning for real, but let's say that while I had fun and relaxed a bit, she struggled a bit more with the love part. 


My friend had a tough experience

 That could all be solved by propper communication but  at the moment we both suffered, but in her case studies were number one priority, above anything else and it was obvious she loved to beat everyone in the class, not in the best way we must add... 

To make it shorter, this friend made it obvious that it was all good and magic when I was beneath her, in grades, crying over heartbreak, getting fatter even! but aslong as she had it "better" our so called friendship that well was mostly just partnership, was gonna remain the same. When my life turned around and got finally lovely, she started to leave and to be honest it may be one of the best things that happened during my college days. 

I cried over this, yes I did, because no matter what we had, it was a huge part of my life aswell and suddenly breaking all contact was not really the way I expected things to go, and as a villain, which makes it worse, when literally all I did was study, go to work and spend time with my loved man. It came as a shock but all we lived, it became clear to me that she wasn't really a nice energy to keep around, she was the opposite of it, always expecting me to be down or at least not above her. Many would say that it was not the case and I made it up, that is how social life works, everyone makes up things about events that aren't even part of their life, creating unnecessary rumours and unreal details. 

After she left me

...cutting all contact we ever had, my struggle to survive without a partner to share work or free time in between classes was hard, but after realizing how bad our energies were together, how the interaction added no good to self development and greatness, then my soul was finally in peace, there was no pain, no tears, no late night projects, no drama, and most of all, there was no one to bring me down anymore, no one inserting doubt in my life. 

Currently I spend my days working, lazying around and meeting friends, spending also a ridiculous amount of time dedicated to my love. In general it is all about getting better, enjoying life and remember these situations happen, we change, we are dynamic creatures that are in constant change, so I'm not surprised by that and can only learn with the experience, remembering all the good times we had together and expecting she feels the same way, living life to its fullest, with no regret or bad energy involved, I wish her all the happiness~  



For all the cherries going through a situation like this 

  • It all goes better, if your friend leaves, remember it is not your fault, we change all the time and it is most likely that you both do not need each others energies at the moment and to experience a different light is always part of life.


  • Remember all the good times and learn through this.


  • Cry all you want & need, even if you weren't truly friends, a partner always touches the heart.


  • Enjoy yourself: It is time to discover what you are in the most RAW state, explore all of your senses,time to reset and find


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Hello! if you're new to my blog, take a look around, it might not be much (yet), but it certainly opens the gates to a new journey I "the mexican cherry" am embracing. 



Through my life, lots of people have told me to write more, that they like it or that it would be good to explore new fields of it. I study a really serious carreer so, writing has to be just like that: serious. 
Although I definitely love to write about what I study, and oh! I forgot to actually mention that I am currently studying International Affairs, plus an online Bachelor of Science in Business Administration (BSBA), it gets hard to study both at the same time, but it is so worth it. Ok, got lost a bit! I surely will write another entry focusing solely on university matters.

To continue, writing has always been part of me, since little I wrote multiple stories and published a few through contests and opportunities that came thanks to the school I studied  in, which takes me back to a moment a teacher told me he could see the next Nobel Prize of Literature in me.
I might be a little discouraged, because I'm obviously not pursuing that exact title, but also terribly inspired to make writing an even bigger part of me.

So this is just the background of why I write, now let's move on to the blog issue. 


If you browse the internet and have accounts on tumblr, youtube and instagram, you might have already encountered some people that publish by a lifestyle tag. But if you look overall, it is probable too polished all the time, which is super inspiring to put your S**t together, but also quite discouraging when you're scrolling down on an instagram account of a girl who's content is amazing and shows multiple trips, parts of the world and of course, luxury EVERYWHERE!  

This scenario might be how a lot of people actually live, but I looked around and noticed that most of us really don't live like that. It inspired me to write about life without that, and don't get me wrong, it is not bad in any way, just different! I wanted to read a blog that had the average girl, the normal life and difficulties that everyone goes through. I know most of the bloggers cannot write about personal stuff too much because it might cause trouble or go out of the already stablished blog content and most of all, some actually say it is risky to write like that and about that. 

I decided to show the internet a different side of the lifestyle story, to actually share personal stuff that imply relationships, school, crisis and even sex. To write about literally every single aspect that life has, no matter what and no matter how. My life motto or at least what I follow in my everyday life with my friends is: 

"If we don't discuss these topics with each other and learn about it real close, then how are we gonna know?"

That above is why I share with my friends most of my experiences, because sharing is caring. Yes it is! And the real stuff might be hard to swallow -no pun intended-, this is the reason I want to share with you guys all of it, and also why you're going to find entries that could sound a tad dramatic from time to time. 


  • Ok so after we talked about the theme and writing background, let me tell you: WHY A BLOG? 

Simple! 

- It is currently free to share it all, while I stablish content and explore the world of blogging. 
- To explore Creative writing: Carrie Bradshaw has been an influence to write the creative way, but since I still don't have a column, a blog is the way to express.
- In the blog, I can write about everything I want and how I want without any restraint

And the last but most important reason: A special someone gave me the final push to it, the one who I have to thank the courage to start this path and really if you ever read this, thank you so much! You were right, there is nothing to fear or lose. 


This is my story, the summed up one so it doesn't become a book! And the journey for the Mexican Cherry continues, with plenty more to write and learn...







**Comming up: Mexican Cherry enters the social media way**





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Mexican Cherry is a lifestyle and more blog based in Mexico, currently sharing the everyday topics that capture Cherry's 23 years old life as a double degree student, friend, hustler, lover and everything related to life.


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