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Mexican Cherry

Hello & welcome to the lifestyle blog of the Mexican Cherry!

As the huge as exam approaches, my mental condition sharpens and there are things to be done in order to get the satisfaction of nailing that test and having a successful outcome. Sadly, some of us don't always wake up in the working mood or even in the wanting to do anything mood... 

When I look back at my old habits, there was always this winning attitude towards work and studies, but as my emotional breakdown hit it's peak, all my empowering self started to fade. Yes, it helped me take a more objective perception of achievement and not having this deception everytime there was a "failure" situation, but it also got me quite relaxed in a bad way: Over procrastination, unpunctual everytime, no discipline whatsoever.

Then I stumbled on a picture saved in the old files of the imagery folder and it hit me, wow! I was really really going through a great path in organization and more important, discipline.

This time there is no excuse







We cannot wait any more time to be on the "right mood", "right time", because everything is happening except for ourselves, the world won't wait for anyone and it is now the only time to focus on. 

So, following the Productivity Series and the now initiated Worktober, here are 5 ways that the common and messy girl can easily follow for a boost of inspiration and productivity.



  1.  WATCH INSPIRATIONAL MATERIAL 
  2. USE TIME BLOCKS 
  3. WORK IN YOUR OWN TIME 
  4. GET SMALL AND LESS STRESSFUL TASKS DONE FIRST 
  5. USE MUSIC WISELY (OR SOUNDS)

1 WATCH INSPIRATIONAL MATERIAL 

To me, sometimes inspiration or the mood to work has to be there for me to actually enjoy getting up and do my chores so, these are the go to movies, series and lately vloggers that help me get in the mood. 

Also, playing those on the background makes me focus and numbs the distracting thoughts and for these I play videos or series that I've watched before so there is no worry over missing parts or having to watch it for real. Just work or do any other activity along them. 









From FRIENDS, Apartment 23 and my all time favorites to boost my energy Legally Blonde and Devil Wears Prada! 


Those are pretty much my go to everytime there is a rush to get things done. By the way for both movies it's the 30 minute mark the one that has the makeover that gives the right motivation~


2.- USE TIME BLOCKS 

We have been bombed with techniques of how to use your time wisely and to be honest the only one that worked was the time block / pomodoro technique, but not really.  So I adapted this timer to take 25 minute blocks of work and then 25 minutes of another activity that does not mean actual work. 

Example: 

25 minutes of analysis of surveys for my actual job 
25 minutes of doing the dishes 
25 minutes of reading and studying 
25 minutes of abs workout 

-.... this has helped me do a lot of things and in no time, besides working like this makes it easier to focus without ditractions and afterwards distract and refill your brain's energy. 

I use any timer but lately for my computer work this website has made the difference, you set the time and an alarm pops when time's up. 

Tomato Timer



3.- WORK IN YOUR OWN TIME 


If there's something to hate is pressure, and sometimes there is pressure from everyone having the perfect 5am morning routine or the solved adult life having a huge salary and office job at the age of 12, you get the idea right? It definitely sucks to feel everyone's getting "better" in life, when in reality who cares? 

The only person, lifestyle and goals you should be following (implementing for real) and wasting your time on is your own, and no matter how much people talk you through their times and achievements, forget about it the moment your meeting ends. Focus on yourself, and do everything with your own pace, at your own time and this obviously applies to WORK. 

By the way it is not an excuse for procrastination, in the end getting things done is an improvement for everyday but honey, stop suffering for not being able to follow some other person productivity pace, follow your heart and the way you do your stuff cause in the end you're the only one that knows how you work for real, nobody has the power to judge that. 


4.- GET SMALL AND LESS STRESSFUL TASKS DONE FIRST 

This one is an important one, because as you go through the making of a lovely to do list you will also encounter a lot of tiny chores that make that list a million pages long, but take a look at it for real and try to find a hierarchy for all. My tip is to separate them in cathegories: 

Today's list was pretty much this way: 




5.- USE MUSIC WISELY (OR SOUNDS) 

Sometimes we need a background noise without visuals, and music is the perfect choice, except when you obviously love the songs and stop at every single one to sing or dance that exciting part (which happens to me a lot while getting ready actually) and that breaks down PRODUCTIVITY. 

So the solution to this might seem awkward but here I'm giving you a tip that works for me: 

  • Play french music - I do speak some french but not enough to distract me and I barely know french songs, just have a few favorites from a spotify playlist, that is called French Women actually. Anyway the tip is play songs you don't know or in a language you barely understand (tricky, but chose the genre that you know less also because I don't know korean and still get distracted from k-pop). 
Another way is to play sounds in the background and for that this is my favorite app/website: COFFITIVITY!!!  You can chose sounds and they make you feel as if you were working on other places, without having to leave your desk or house at all. It is weird but believe me, they transport your mind to another place, ready to work! 




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Here there are, my 5 favorite ways to boost that inspiration and get me ready to WORK! 

This Worktober Mexican Cherry is on track! Willing to change and make it to the top, of course sharing the experience as it goes 


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Hello cherries! 

Today I present you the moodboard of the week! Even though it is arriving a bit late than expected, this gathering of beautiful visuals is pretty much the sum up of last week also. Between handling events, meet ups with friends, cooking an average of two hours per day to follow a diet and of course every single project that needs to get done...or started, there's been a topic right on my mind that I notice everyone is working on. 

You guessed it

  PRODUCTIVITY 


First of all, let me credit an awesome tumblr blog for the upper right image where a a notepad, bullet journal and starbucks appear, click right here to check Eintsein's inspiring post and make sure to check the entire blog since it is besides beautiful, incredibly helpful!  

This week the moodboard consists of florals, nostalgia, and productive inspiration. Let me list the elements that compose this visual board: 

  • #GIRLBOSS 
If you haven't watched this serie please do, it is awesome and every chapter had me truly inspired, since it is  based on the book by Sophia Amoruso and her real life events creating a successful business. The story is so relatable and can be enjoyed easily, btw the soundtrack is bomb!  

  • Coffee Shops 
Could be weird for some, but I love, love, love to work in a coffee shop. Somehow it gives me double motivation to finish my duties and it is magical to write with a cozy & embracing environment hugging your every thought as you manage to get things done! 

  • Flowers 
We are in Spring, at least in Mexico and flowers are everywhere and the reason they are on the moodboard is because they happen to inspire my sweet and delicate side, but they also evoke what life is, since they grow and wither right in front of your eyes, just like ideas, like that project you wanted to do but never did, exactly! it could be blossoming, but instead you let it wither. 

No more! Our garden of thoughts and ideas is meant to be taken care of, so let's dive in to nourishing our minds and stop procrastinating or making less of what we think ;)  

  • LOVE 
Yup! I seem to be a helpless romantic! Could be true, but cmon guys, don't you love love? It is pretty much everywhere we look, surrounding us with nature, people, stories, music and everything there is. Without love, whether it is self-love or not, it is my believe that without it, most of what we do becomes mechanical. Love what you do, love what you do, love what you are! ~  


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*This content was previously posted on Bloglovin', no worries I wrote it and wanted it to appear in here too* 

To be honest, completely and nothing to hide honest, there are still times I feel vulnerable and insecure.


Why? First of all, I've never been a girl that forgives and forgets quickly. Nope! I am the opposite and I only forgive when there are really strong reasons to. Life has treated me weirdly, not bad, but surely reminding me (or at least that is what my mind processed at the time) that I needed to be better, that there is always someone better than you and you can get replaced no matter what.
That thought has gotten me into discussions with others through time, but in the end it still remains, in a lower degree, but still...replaceable. It comes with a low self-esteem and the fact that most of the time I do not feel prettty at all. I do not even look at myself that much, the image of mine is distorted in my head and I remember my body and face way too different every time.
But this perception problems are meant to be written in a different post. They serve as the background of my current feelings though.
Tonight, the night the thirteenth episode of Girlboss was playing in my dimlighted room when I realised that what happens to Sophia, happened to me aswell. In a different way, but the feelings were pretty much the same. Short story, she gets cheated on and at first her mind doesn't process the load of emotions, helping her focus on the launch of Nasty Gal. She discovers the unfaithful man getting a blowjob from a girl of the band he plays the drums for...yup! She watches and goes away, but doesn't have the courage to break up with him or better said...she doesn't want to!
I have been there, you know, I have always been the jealous kind but this time my jealousy became pain. Watching my love flirting around with another girl and knowing exactly how he behaves so, everytime you see them together you know there is something going on between them, even if he doesn't tell anyone, because you love him girl! You pretty much know everything about him and there is a point where intuition makes you wonder even more. He cheated on me in a very weird way and to the day, I still imagine different scenarios, ones where I fight for what I want and confront him from the beginning. Ones where he tells me the truth and I can leave him and keep going with my life.

Don't get me wrong, my current life is damn happy!! I'm in love and enjoying life with ma special one~
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A year ago, everyone that knew me was tired, tears wouldn't stop flowing and all I could think was how? why is he doing this to me? Am I not good enough? and the worst of all ... Is she better than me?
These questions wandered my mind through a couple of months, I ran into her and thought if she wondered the same, if she knew the man she was flirting with or dating (I don't have the details on how far they went with their connection) was the same I loved, the same that was talking sweet to me, texting and still kissing me. We will never know, but this cherry thought she had no chance. Knewing ma man, she was way more hipster style than I ever will, she listens to music that they both enjoy, she knows more about digital programs and I won't mention what she does but, yeah they both knew about it. So, interests and looks were against me & my mind played tricks with my head making me feel like shit.
Not a beautiful girl, fat/chubby, short, straight no live hair...etc. Have you ever felt like there is something going on but you have no proof of it? Well, since he did the "stuff" in private and barely anyone knew about this situation, I had no other way of knowing what was going on. I tried to ask him but he's not the kind of man you can actually discuss these doubts with.
Going back to trust, mine was broken. I felt like everyone could lie to me, betray me and leave me. I felt like there was no one real, no one caring enough. In part that was true, but mostly it was my insecurity showing through, it was heartache pouring out of my pores, it was everything I needed to express to him and couldn't, every single question left unanswered and every time I had to see them together.
My days now are close to perfection as I wrote above, but there are sometimes these horrible flashbacks that show me what he did. How I cried my heart out and fell asleep with puffy eyes and mostly, every single time he broke my heart. Someone said that the only way to know if you can trust someone is just like that, trusting. That is the only way and even if you ask, there is no guarantee it won't happen again.
Yeah, hooray! My heart was broken once, and even though it kept loving, the healing process is quite slow, my love cannot fullfil everything and reach the areas that were neglected once, I need his help and reassurance just to know and believe that nothing bad is happening, that he won't do that again. Yes, it sounds awful, but just a single sentence is more than enough.
There are some things I wish I could change, because honestly, sometimes I feel like he is not sure about me and that is the reason of not publicly showing we are together, of not defining our status and barely interacting in other spaces where strangers don't form a barrier of privacy. These are the reasons the trust I deposit in him sometimes gets all alarmed and clingy, I am truly sorry for this.
Trust is a really weird concept and everyone gets to experience it in a different way...
Even if I don't get anything back or in return to what I do and say, believe me, he has become one of the most important people in my life and I am sorry to him for not being able to forget as quickly as he does, sorry for sometimes getting jealous of stupid things, real sorry for reacting so weird when I feel a slight sign of what happened before, if you ever read this, sorry bae...I am working on it and slowly moving on and forgetting every single detail of what happened, no matter what, remember that I love you my dear.
Till this day sometimes I'm weak and have bad thoughts, but surely wanting to improve and slowly but surely, get over these annoying trust issues.
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